There's nothing like a good conversation! While there is no one skill that will make you a better conversationalist, there are several skills and qualities you can develop.
What makes someone a good conversationalist? Perhaps you have a friend or coworker who can tell stories really well or start a good conversation with almost anyone. According to language and communication coach Lucy Samuels of Lucy Samuels Co., those good conversationalists likely share these qualities:
Curiosity
"Someone who is naturally curious will never run out of topics to discuss or learn about."
Positivity
Holding a conversation with someone who has a negative perspective(消极视角) can be a real downer. In fact, Samuels has found that a positive appearance " sparks(触发) positive conversations," so by improving your outlook, you can also improve your conversation skills.
Confidence
Samuels finds confidence to be another key quality that good conversationalists share." It's true that you can't exactly control impolite talkers, but you can certainly take a confident stance(立场) that deters(威慑) impolite talkers."
In a word, leaning how to carry a quality conversation can empower you to have stronger job interviews and avoid small talk to make more meaningful connections with people.
A. Don't worry about being the most confident talker.
B. It gets you thinking and may even get you a better job.
C. Practicing can make some conversations less awkward.
D Think about the people in your life who you love talking to.
E. But positive people know how to drive any conversation in the right direction.
F. Curious people often ask meaningful questions, which makes for great conversations.
G. Having confidence in yourself lessens the chance of being influenced in a conversation.
