We often have arguments in all relationships. But that is not always a bad thing. Sometimes we can choose to be in a win-win situation. What is important is how we manage the argument.
Treat each other with respect.
If your friend calls your names or makes fun of you, tell him or her to stop. , walk away and tell him or her you do not want to talk any more. Respect has to be won and if you want people to respect you, do the same to them.
Listen to other people patiently.
When everyone is talking, who does the listening？Listen to understand, not to reply.
Listening in silence is sometimes stronger than arguing in vain（徒劳无益）.
If giving in to others can lead to a nice result, there is no need to argue just to win someone else. After all, solving an argument doesn't have to be a tug-of-war（拔河）.
In a word, we each should do our own part to deal with arguments.
A. If your friend continues
B. Give in when it is necessary.
C. If you don't want to talk about your friend
D. The following suggestions might help you.
E. Do not be too quick to judge what you hear.
F. The more you talk, the better the result will be.
G. In this way, we can achieve a win-win situation.
