If you miss one of the old friends you've lost touch with and think about reaching out to them, you may worry about whether it'll be just like old times, or uncomfortable and awkward. Here are some ways to help you avoid any awkwardness while reconnecting with an old friend.
Reach out through social media. Connect with them through social media, text message or other means if you're too nervous to make a phone call or to begin a meet up. Follow up on one of their most recent posts.
Show some love. If you're really happy to connect with your old friend, make it a point to communicate that to them. Sincere warmth can help lessen some of the awkwardness that may build up in a relationship.
Start conversation by bringing up a fun time you shared. It will transport you both back to that moment when you were close and help smooth over the "What are you up to now?" conversations that sound too rigid (死板).
Display your interest. As you chat with your friend, try to pay attention and ask follow-up questions. Empathizing (共鸣) with them can help you connect with them and get to know who they are today.
Move past conflicts. Don't talk a lot about your conflicts or the reasons why your friendship became less close. If it happens to come up naturally down the line, then feel free to address any possible hurt feelings. In the beginning, just focus on what you had in common and the good times you shared together.
A. Bring back a happy memory.
B. Make detailed plans for the future.
C. But better avoid taking the risk too soon.
D. Update your friend on everything going on in your life.
E. This shows you're interested in what they're sharing with you.
F. Be warm with them and let them know how much it means to you.
G. Then starting conversation about what they're up to will be a natural thing.
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