Teenagers have their own thoughts and act like they know almost anything. However, in reality they don't have much experience. So it's not easy when you have to deal with these difficult teenagers.
⒈Keep calm
It is easy for difficult teenagers to make you lose control and act improperly. When you feel angry or challenged by a teen, take a deep breath and count slowly to ten, and then deal with the problem after you become calm again.
⒉Set up clear boundaries(界限)
Since most teenagers want to experience greater independence and selfhood, some will challenge you in order to test their power. It's very important to set boundaries. The first boundary in almost any situation is that you will be treated with respect. In addition to respect, there may also be a list of family, classroom, or team ground rules.
⒊Pay attention to the leader
Many teachers know that when they face a group of difficult students in class, it's not necessary to deal with every student. Another management skill is to separate challenging persons so that they're less likely to form a group and feed off each other.
⒋Show understanding
Say to yourself with some humor and then get on with your business.
A. The first rule is to keep calm.
B. Below are keys to deal with them.
C. Make use of useful communication.
D. At worst this may make you the other side.
E. When a teenager is in difficulty, show understanding.
F. Useful boundaries are those which are fair and reasonable.
G. Usually, by dealing with the leader, the rest of the group will follow.
